Here are some frequently asked questions. Don’t see your question below? Please email us for a personal response! redvelvetretreat@gmail.com


I am brand new to exploring the world of kinky sex. Will I feel comfortable at this event?

–While RVR is open to women of all levels of experience, this particular retreat is perfect for you. Our goal is to make kinky sex accessible to all women who are interested in it! The classes are specifically designed to give you a well-rounded introduction to a variety of kinky sex activities, as well as developing your own erotic communication skills.


Do I need to wear fetish clothes or leather, etc?

–Not at all. We want you to feel comfortable and relaxed. You are welcome to dress in whatever way best suites you for a learning environment. If you want to try out your new corset, maybe Saturday night at the party would be a fun time to wear it  😉  but it might get uncomfortable to wear all day Saturday. Of course a cute and comfy dress can be nice for helping put some of us in a sexy mood. Or jeans and a t-shirt with a sassy logo on it.


I am deaf or hard of hearing. Do you have an ASL interpreter available?

–Currently we do not. But if you are in need of an ASL interpreter, please let us know and we will work on bringing one in for the retreat.


Is there a refund if I can’t attend the event?

–No refunds will be offered unless the workshop is cancelled. We will consider emergency situations on a case by case basis. If you are unable to attend, your registration may be transferred to someone else. Be sure to let us know if you would like to transfer your registration and we will assist you with the process.