September 2023

September 29 – October 01, 2023   —  Located in northern Virginia, just south of Washington, D.C.

Red Velvet Retreat is an exciting new concept in women’s erotic education. This decadent 3-day retreat is crafted for couples & singles eager to develop or enhance their kinky sex lives.

Classes are specifically designed with a focus for both Dominants and submissives, as well as developing erotic communication skills. Curiosity is encouraged! We are being hosted in a beautiful private education space that will set you at ease while stimulating your senses!

Classes include: Orientation, Getting What You Want, Toys and Technology, Bondage Basics, Sensation Play, and Dungeon Essentials. You will also be treated to a pampering brunch and group discussion on Sunday! Some of the titles will be familiar to previous attendees, but the classes will have a fresh approach that fits the different focus of this particular retreat. You are welcome to join us again as we delve into new aspects of FemDom dynamics!

It promises to be three days of food, fun, & hands-on education!! This particular Retreat weekend is geared towards Dominant women and any submissives who are interested in FemDom relationships. Our special focus is a creative approach to FemDom relationship dynamics inside and outside the dungeon, with an emphasis on sensual, non-traditional FemDom styles.

Our educators are strongly involved in BDSM/Kink/Sex Postive communities and have a dedication to education. Ivory Mistress Jae is a long time professional in Sexuality and Kink/BDSM Education, as well as being a Dominant in her personal and professional life. Mistress Lynn is a Certified life coach specializing in alternative lifestyles, and is also a highly experienced professional and lifestyle Dominant. Together we bring over 30 years of experience in the world of female Dominant/male submissive dynamics and look forward to sharing our knowledge with you!

Your weekend package includes 7 highly focused classes, meals & beverages, an exclusive gift bag, a wine tasting meet and greet, a pampering brunch, and admission to a private play party! This is a fun and exciting way to invest in yourself and your relationship!

Our Retreats tend to sell out, so be sure to sign up right away! Registration is limited.

Connect with other attendees in our Discussion Group on FetLife. We also have an Event Page on FetLife.


Anyone looking to get involved as an event sponsor is welcome to contact us. We have a couple of sponsorship options and look forward to networking with you!