February 2025

February 28 – March 02, 2025   —  Located just outside of Washington, D.C., in Bethesda, MD

Join us for an amazing experience in male submission and erotic growth!!

Red Velvet Retreat is an exciting concept in erotic education. This decadent 3-day retreat is an intensive, kink-positive, body-positive weekend workshop focused on discovering what being submissive means for you and your relationships. This workshop will challenge you to explore and claim a broader spectrum of pleasure for yourself, and with your intimate partners. Interactive, engaging and fun, this weekend offers comprehensive and creative education in a safe space for submissive men, with a focus on FemDom/male submissive relationships. Curiosity is encouraged! The Retreat will be hosted in a lovely private education space that will set you at ease while stimulating your senses!

Classes include: Orientation, Getting What You Want (Negotiation), Cultivating the Submissive, Hands-On in the Dungeon, Dress for Success (& optional photo shoot), Exploring Service, Be a FetLife Profile Pro, Orgy of the Minds (Group Discussion/Weekend Feedback).

It promises to be three days of food, fun, & hands-on education!! This particular Retreat weekend is geared towards submissive men who are interested in FemDom relationships. Our special focus is a creative approach to exploring and developing your submissive side, while at the same time offering you concrete ways to enhance your FemDom relationships and/or attract new partners.

The primary educator for this specialized retreat is strongly involved in the Washington DC BDSM community and has a dedication to education. Ivory Mistress Jae is a long standing professional in Sexuality and Kink/BDSM Education, as well as being a Dominant in her personal and professional life. She brings 25 years of experience in the world of female Dominant/male submissive dynamics and looks forward to sharing her knowledge with you!

We are thrilled to have Judy G (aka Ms Ariel) and Ms Reba as our special guest educators! Judy G is a well-known speaker, writer, sex educator and activist on sexual freedom and gender expression issues and has worked on advocacy issues for over 40 years. Ms Reba identifies as a compassionate sadist. She has been a professional domme, a Society of Janus officer, and a private player for over 35 years who still enjoys tormenting good boys & girls.

Your weekend package includes 8 highly focused classes, meals & beverages, an exclusive gift bag, a wine tasting meet and greet, inspiring brunch, and a private play party! Registration is $300 per person. This is a fun and exciting way to invest in yourself and your submissive desires!

Our Retreats tend to sell out, so be sure to sign up right away! Registration is limited.

Due to the nature of this event, all potential attendees must be interviewed in order to confirm they will be a good fit.

*While this event has been tailored for submissive men seeking relationships with dominant women, submissives of any gender and orientation are welcome to register.

Connect with other attendees in our Discussion Group on FetLife. We also have an Event Page on FetLife.

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Anyone looking to get involved as an event sponsor is welcome to contact us. We have a couple of sponsorship options and look forward to networking with you!